8 phrases a Pisces woman uses when she pretends to love you

Have you ever been in a relationship where everything seemed perfect, but deep down, something felt off?

She said all the right things, reassured you when you had doubts, and made you believe she was all in — yet her words didn’t quite match her energy.

I’ve been there.

At first, I ignored the gut feeling that something was missing.

She wasn’t cold or distant, but looking back, I realize that some of the things she said were just placeholders—words meant to keep me comfortable rather than reveal the truth.

In astrology, Pisces women often stand out for their deep empathy and dreamy way of relating. They can be incredibly loving, but there are times when they say what you want to hear instead of what’s really in their heart.

Below are 8 phrases I’ve observed a Pisces woman might use when she pretends her feelings are stronger than they actually are.

1. “Everything is perfect between us”

Whenever I hear someone describe a relationship as “perfect,” I immediately wonder if it’s too good to be true.

Perfection is a heavy word. It implies no room for growth or discussion.

In my experience, a Pisces woman who isn’t fully invested might rely on this phrase to keep the peace. She wants to avoid deeper discussions and potential disagreements.

By declaring that everything is flawless, she’s sidestepping the possibility of tension.

Deep down, she may sense issues that need addressing, but she might feel it’s easier to pretend those problems don’t exist. She may not want to risk conflict, so this big statement becomes a defensive shield, stopping you from digging deeper.

I once saw a friend stay silent about her real concerns, repeating “We’re so perfect!” whenever her partner asked about their future.

Later, it all burst out at once, revealing a lot of bottled-up worries.

2. “I never think about my past relationships”

When someone says they “never” think about their past relationships, it can come across as an attempt to reassure you that you’re the only one on their mind.

But in reality, it’s normal—and even healthy—to reflect on past connections occasionally.

Pisces women are often introspective, especially about their emotional history.

So if she claims to have no thoughts or lingering feelings about ex-partners at all, I find it a bit suspicious. She might be hiding her lingering questions, regrets, or nostalgic memories.

Avoiding the topic could mean she’s not ready to be fully transparent.

Maybe she fears you’ll get jealous if you know she still occasionally wonders about people she once cared for. Or perhaps she just wants to say what she thinks you want to hear, so she doesn’t upset the moment’s harmony.

In my conversations with friends, genuine honesty often involves at least a mention of lessons learned from the past.

3. “Your interests are exactly like mine”

It’s natural to bond over shared interests.

I remember feeling an instant spark with someone who loved the same books I adored.

But if a Pisces woman constantly insists she adores everything you like—even the most random hobbies—there might be more going on.

She might be mirroring your preferences to keep you close and avoid disagreements. I’ve seen situations where someone pretends to love a sport or a music genre just to appear more compatible than they actually are.

One friend who dated a Pisces woman noticed she’d claim to love hiking, even though she rarely went outdoors. When he tried planning nature trips, she always had excuses.

Eventually, it became clear she was only saying she enjoyed those adventures so he’d feel comfortable.

Real compatibility involves embracing each other’s passions and also having space for personal tastes. A forced “me too” attitude can hide a lack of true connection.

4. “I only have eyes for you”

This phrase sounds incredibly romantic, but it can also be an easy way to divert suspicion or insecurity.

Pisces women, with their idealistic approach to love, might genuinely feel deep attachment, but if she’s merely trying to keep the peace, she could toss out this phrase without real conviction.

I once knew a Pisces who felt guilty about having doubts about her relationship. She’d cover it up by constantly affirming, “There’s nobody else I’m interested in—only you.”

In truth, she wasn’t necessarily pining for someone else, but she wasn’t fully in love either. She clung to those words to reassure her partner and possibly herself.

Sometimes, the person saying this doesn’t even realize they’re faking the intensity.

They’re caught up in wanting everything to look and feel fairytale-like.

But if actions don’t match that statement—like random flirtations or drifting attention—there might be more to unpack.

5. “I trust you completely”

Trust is the cornerstone of any relationship, but it isn’t something that appears instantly. It takes time, shared experiences, and open conversations to build genuine faith in each other.

When a Pisces woman says she trusts you “completely” early on, it might signal that she’s projecting an ideal onto you or trying to fast-track closeness.

Some people assume blind trust as a shortcut, hoping to forge a deep bond quickly.

But this can also be a method to dodge honesty about lingering doubts or insecurities.

If she claims full trust while seeming oddly guarded at times—like deflecting certain questions or avoiding direct answers—her words might not match her deeper feelings.

6. “I can’t believe how easy this is”

There’s something appealing about relationships that feel effortless.

When the chemistry clicks naturally, it’s a joy. But it’s rare for two people to mesh perfectly in all respects from day one.

A Pisces woman might say “This is so easy” to highlight the good vibes, but sometimes it’s also a way to brush aside early red flags.

She may fear that if she admits any stress or difference of opinion, the dreamy atmosphere will fade.

I’ve seen couples glide along for months, claiming everything was a breeze.

Later, they were blindsided by underlying issues that never got addressed.

One Pisces I knew felt that openly discussing problems would ruin the romance, so she insisted everything was smooth. Eventually, the tension built, and it became harder to fix what they’d swept under the rug.

“Easy” can be a comforting story, but genuine closeness often involves navigating bumps along the road.

7. “I want you to decide for me”

I’ve noticed that Pisces women sometimes shy away from making tough calls or voicing strong opinions.

When they say “You decide,” it can come across as supportive or laid-back.

But there’s a fine line between genuine flexibility and not caring enough to engage.

If she consistently defers big decisions—where to live, how often to see each other, future plans—it might suggest she’s not as emotionally invested as she claims.

She could be letting you steer the relationship so she doesn’t feel the weight of real commitment.

In some cases, she might be doing this because she wants to keep a safe distance. By leaving everything in your hands, she has an easy escape if things go wrong.

That way, she can always say, “Well, it was your choice.”

A balanced partnership involves both people having a voice.

So if she’s habitually pushing responsibility onto you, consider whether her love is as genuine as she says.

8. “I don’t need any space”

I’ve met people who truly enjoy constant togetherness, but it’s human nature to crave a little breathing room sometimes.

Personal space isn’t a sign of disinterest—it’s just a healthy aspect of any relationship.

When a Pisces woman insists she doesn’t need any space at all, it could be an attempt to appear ultra-devoted. She might worry that admitting she wants alone time will shatter the romantic ideal she’s trying to maintain.

However, this can be a red flag that she’s not being honest about her true needs.

Eventually, if she feels stifled or overwhelmed, she could withdraw abruptly or look for escape routes.

In my own life, I’ve seen relationships implode because one person refused to acknowledge they needed breaks to recharge.

A genuine bond grows stronger when both individuals can be themselves. If she’s always insisting she’s fine sticking to your side 24/7, consider the possibility that she’s masking her deeper feelings.

Final thoughts

I learned the hard way that words can paint a beautiful picture, yet actions often reveal the true colors beneath.

These eight phrases highlight moments when a Pisces woman—who’s normally quite sensitive and caring—might be glossing over her real emotions.

It might be a way to keep harmony or protect someone from hurt, but in the long run, it can create misunderstandings.

Authentic love doesn’t come from avoiding conflict or offering endless reassurance. It blooms from honest communication, shared vulnerability, and mutual respect for each other’s boundaries.

If you’re hearing lines like “Everything is perfect between us” or “I don’t need any space,” pause and look at the overall dynamic. Sometimes, those statements could be genuine—but other times, they might just be a Band-Aid over deeper issues.

If things feel off, it’s worth initiating an open conversation.

Real trust and intimacy come when two people are ready to share how they truly feel and listen to each other, even if it gets messy.