Who’s the pettiest of them all? The Zodiac signs ranked by grudge level

I’ve always been intrigued by the subtle ways we hold onto hurts. Sometimes we let them roll off our backs, and other times we simmer in silent fury.

I used to think this was all about personality, but the more I studied mindset shifts and patterns of behavior, the more I realized our star signs might be a clue too.

It’s fascinating how people’s reactions to conflict can vary so much, from shrugging off minor slights to giving the classic cold shoulder for weeks.

There’s no shame in admitting we can all be petty sometimes. There’s also power in spotting these tendencies so we can learn to let go more often.

Today, I’m digging into each zodiac sign to see how likely each is to nurse a grudge. I’m ranking them from the least likely to cling to resentment all the way to the sign known for storing every slight like trophies.

Let’s see who’s most likely to keep that grudge alive.

1. Sagittarius

I rank Sagittarius as the most easygoing sign when it comes to holding grudges.

My Sag friends are quick to roll their eyes and say, “It’s fine—let’s move on.” They have bigger adventures to chase and usually don’t want emotional baggage weighing them down.

Sure, they might get momentarily annoyed, but it’s never so deep that it festers. They’ll tell you how they feel, then drop it.

2. Libra

Libras crave peace more than payback. They want everyone to get along, and if you cross them, they’ll likely try to sort it out quickly.

They’re eager to understand both sides of a conflict, which can make them wonderful at letting go of resentments.

If you see a Libra holding a grudge, it’s probably because they’ve felt deeply misunderstood. Even then, they’ll work to find balance again.

3. Gemini

Geminis can be momentarily dramatic, but they bounce back quickly.

I’ve noticed their moods shift like the wind, and that actually works in their favor when it comes to grudges. They’ll get riled up, vent to their best friend, and by the next day, they’re in a whole new headspace.

Geminis don’t like being pinned down by negativity. Their curious minds move on before resentment can root.

4. Aquarius

Aquarians can seem detached, but I find that can be a good thing for letting go. They don’t spend too much energy on small squabbles and can seem above petty drama.

However, if you truly wound an Aquarius’s sense of justice, they’ll stick to their side.

They won’t actively seek revenge, but they’ll keep their distance if they think you’re not aligning with their moral compass.

5. Aries

I used to think Aries would rank higher on the pettiness scale because they’re so fiery.

But most Aries individuals flare up in the moment and then cool off just as fast. They won’t hesitate to call you out, but they don’t often stay angry.

Their bluntness can feel jarring, but the upside is that they resolve issues right away. Once they’ve said their piece, they’re done holding onto it.

6. Capricorn

Capricorns can be slow to anger, but once they feel wronged, it’s tough to make them forget.

As a Capricorn myself, I notice we tend to store hurt quietly while we figure out if it’s worth addressing. We’re not the type to show every emotion, yet we do remember who’s been supportive versus who’s been shady.

Eventually, we might even let it go, but we file the lesson for future reference.

7. Taurus

Taurus is known for being steadfast, and that applies to grudges too. They’re patient, and they might give second chances, but if you consistently disrespect their boundaries, they’ll dig in their heels.

It takes a while for a Taurus to blow up, yet once they do, they’re not eager to forgive.

They often see letting go as a sign of vulnerability, so it can take time to win back their trust.

8. Leo

Leos can be surprisingly touchy when they feel their pride is dented.

They’d rather everyone see them in the best light, so if you belittle them or overshadow their moment, they might hold onto that slight longer than you expect.

Leos crave admiration, so a direct insult can sting. They’ll move on eventually if you apologize, but they’ll remind you that they deserve respect.

9. Cancer

I’ve known several Cancers who let things fester beneath a calm exterior. They soak up emotional vibes like a sponge, so if you hurt them, they’ll replay the memory in their mind over and over.

Cancers will stew quietly, trying to rationalize or justify what happened. They’re extremely loyal but also sensitive.

With time and honest communication, they can forgive, but they rarely forget.

10. Virgo

Virgos remember everything in sharp detail, and that includes every slight or broken promise. They’re perfectionists, so if you mess up big-time in their eyes, they’ll file it away.

It’s not that they enjoy being petty; they just can’t help noticing inconsistencies. Virgos can hold a grudge until they see genuine effort or a real apology.

They need to know you’re taking accountability before they ease up.

11. Pisces

Pisces might surprise you by ranking so high on the grudge scale. They’re generally empathetic, but that same empathy can make them feel extra wounded.

When they’re hurt, they retreat into their emotional depth, and resentment can brew there for a long time. They may not confront you directly. Instead, they might distance themselves or brood quietly.

Eventually, they might forgive, but it can be a winding path.

12. Scorpio

Finally, we have Scorpio. In my experience, if there’s a gold medal for holding grudges, Scorpio wins it.

They’re intense, loyal, and deeply private about emotional wounds. Once trust is broken, they protect themselves fiercely and can turn icy. They don’t forgive easily because they see every conflict as something that tests loyalty. If you cross them, expect them to remember it indefinitely.

You’ll likely never see Scorpio’s bitterness on full display; they’re careful about how they reveal it. But if you know one well, you’ll sense the walls they build when they feel betrayed.

Conclusion

I’ve learned that grudges aren’t always about revenge; often, they come from a place of fear or unmet needs. We’re protecting ourselves from getting hurt again.

While I know it can be tempting to nurse old wounds, there’s real freedom in letting them go. If you see yourself in one of these descriptions, you might want to check how long you let your resentments simmer.

A quick self-reflection is this: What payoff do I get from holding onto a grudge, and is it worth the stress it creates? The more we understand our triggers, the easier it becomes to release old baggage and heal those unspoken tensions.

Whether you’re a cheerful Sagittarius or a stoic Scorpio, you’re always free to rewrite how you respond to hurt. After all, grudges might feel powerful in the moment, but true power lies in knowing when to move on.