7 Signs That Show You Have a Great Relationship with Your Kids

Fellow parents, how would you describe your relationship with your kids? As a mom of three energetic boys, I’ve had my fair share of superhero battles, Lego disasters, and more bedtime stories than I can count. Every day is an adventure filled with noise, mess, and lots of love. 

Amidst the chaos, it’s natural to wonder if we’re truly connecting with our kids. Are they happy? Do they feel loved? Are we doing a good job? Some telltale signs reassure us we’re on the right track. 

From spontaneous hugs to heartfelt conversations, these moments are the building blocks of a strong, loving relationship with your kids. So, pin, save, or share the image below to remind yourself of these heartwarming signs, and keep them close for those days when you need a little reassurance!

1. They Confide in You

Whether it’s sharing their playground drama or their latest dinosaur discovery, if your kids talk to you about their day, it’s a good sign they trust you. Being their go-to person means they feel safe and valued. So, keep those ears open and the judgment to a minimum!

2. Laughter is a Daily Occurrence

If your house is filled with giggles, you’re doing something right. Laughter is a universal sign of happiness and comfort. Whether it’s cracking jokes at the dinner table or having a tickle fight in the living room, those shared laughs are priceless.

3. They Seek Your Approval

Ever notice how your kids look to you for that nod of approval after they’ve built the tallest block tower or painted a (somewhat recognizable) family portrait? Seeking your validation shows they care about your opinion and want to make you proud.

4. Hugs and Kisses Come Freely

When hugs, kisses, and cuddles are given without prompting, it means your kids feel a strong emotional connection to you. After all, physical affection is a beautiful expression of love and security. Cherish those moments, even if they’re accompanied by sticky fingers and messy faces.

5. They Mirror Your Behavior

Kids learn by observing, and if you notice them mimicking your positive behaviors—like showing kindness, being patient, or cleaning up after themselves—it’s a testament to the strong relationship you have.¹ They’re looking up to you as a role model, and that’s something to be proud of!

6. They Include You in Their Play

When your kids want you to join in their games, it shows they enjoy your company and see you as more than just the rule enforcer. Whether it’s playing pretend, building forts, or having a spontaneous dance party, being invited into their world is a sign of a strong bond.

7. They Show Empathy

Seeing your child comfort a sibling or express concern when you’re having a tough day is a heartwarming sign of a great relationship. Empathy is learned through example, and if your kids are showing it, you’ve created a loving and supportive environment for them.

Tips for Strengthening Your Relationship With Your Kids

Building a strong bond with your kids takes effort, but it’s also about making everyday moments special. Remember, you can never give your child “too much love.”²

Here are some easy ways to connect with your little ones:³

• Create special rituals: Whether it’s a weekly movie night, a secret handshake, or a bedtime story routine, these traditions make memories and bring you closer.
• Listen actively: Give them your full attention when they share stories or concerns. It shows you care and builds trust.
• Spend quality time together: Make time for each child individually. Doing activities they love makes them feel important and loved.
• Express appreciation: Don’t forget to say “thank you” and “I’m proud of you.” It boosts their confidence and strengthens your bond.

Activities to Enhance Relationship With Your Kids

Having fun together strengthens your bond in ways you’ll cherish. Here are simple activities to enjoy with your kids:

• Family game nights: Laugh and play games as a team.
• Outdoor adventures: Explore nature, go on hikes, or enjoy picnics together.
• Creative projects: Get artsy with crafts, cooking, or building things. It’s all about having fun and creating together.

Wrapping Up

Having a great relationship with your kids doesn’t mean everything is perfect all the time. There will be tantrums, arguments, and days when you feel like you’re losing the parenting battle. But those signs of connection, trust, and love are what really matter. So, keep up the great work and cherish every beautiful, chaotic moment with your little ones.

How do you know you have a great relationship with your kids? Share it in the comments below!

1. Rymanowicz, K. “Monkey see, monkey do: Model behavior in early childhood.” Michigan State University, 2015. ↩︎
2. “What you need to know about parent-child attachment.” UNICEF. ↩︎
3. Dorn, P. “8 Ways to Strengthen a Parent-Child Relationship.” Family Services, 2028. ↩︎